Making penetration sex the goal is essentially framing the game around the heterosexual male experience of pleasure.
That focus on "real" sex not only ignores the intricacies of female pleasure; the base system also disregards the queer experience of gays, lesbians, asexual people and other sexual minorities. That is kind of ridiculous and contributes to that black-and-white idea of what sexuality is.
In reality, we're all playing a different game: Sex is personal, and the experience varies. But when it becomes goal-oriented, the individual experience is erased, replaced by a checklist that treats intimate interactions as items to be checked off.
Like vating aging MLB player, it's time to retire the system.
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